Quick Win: Janine’s 5 Suggestions to Beat Loneliness as a Freelance Writer
Freelancing can be lonely, but don’t fret. There are hundreds of thousands of freelancers across the country and the globe who are in exactly the same boat and within the Healthcare Marketing Network. Janine Kelbach offers you 5 ways to beat the loneliness of being a freelance writer.
Janet: 00:00 Okay, start your engines and get ready to power up for a quick win from The Savvy Scribe team, Carol Bush and Janine Kelbach are here to take your freelance healthcare writing business to the next level with this powerful Quick Wins on The Savvy Scribe podcast.
Carol: 00:19 Hi, Savvy Scribes! Are you ready for today’s Quick Win? When we’re going to talk about something that not a lot of people like to bring to the forefront, that the reality when you work for yourself, you’re often based at home and therefore you can feel alone and also lonely. Think about it as a freelancer and entrepreneur, a CEO of your own business. Everything you do to make your business a success is dependent on you and you alone, which can leave this feeling overwhelmed. Honestly. All the problems and issues that we face are tackled by ourselves and no one else and make no mistake. Freelancing can be lonely, but don’t fret. There are hundreds of thousands of freelancers across the country and the globe who are in exactly the same boat and within the Healthcare Marketing Network. That’s exactly one of the missions that we created, the community to give one another strong support. Feeling isolated is really quite normal for anyone who works for themselves, but have you ever thought about how do you stop yourself feeling this way? So today in this Quick Win, Janine’s going to speak from our own experiences and she’s put together five ways to beat loneliness and help you tackle isolation and become a happier, healthier freelancer. My favorite is number three. Take it away, Janine.
Janine: 01:52 Hello everybody. This is Janine Kelbach, the co-host of The Savvy Scribe podcast. And here’s a Quick Win episode. I’m going to share five ways to beat loneliness while you work as a freelancer. Some of you might ask, why did I choose this topic? There’s actually two reasons when I recorded this. It’s literally 20 degrees outside, gray and dreary here in Cleveland, Ohio. The second reason is that many of us are introverts as writers, and being alone doesn’t sound so bad at first when we started the business, but it will eat at you if you let it.
Janine: 02:32 So let’s jump right to this topic. The first thing to do beat loneliness is to try to go to work somewhere else. Personally, I have a very cozy Home Office that I love to work out of, but sometimes I just want to be around people so I’ll hit up a local coffee joint library or even like a cafe just to have people around me. If you are really a people person and you don’t find that people energize you. Co-working spaces are available as well in my area and many areas around the nation that people can go and actually rent a space to do office work every day. I once knew a freelancer that needed that because she was too distracted in her home environment and I fully understand that because I have two kids, two great Danes, and a husband and there’s always somebody knocking at the door or laying by my feet, the dog or a kid who knows somebody who’s like doing work next to me. Like my little guy, he likes to draw while I do my work, so it. But it’s all distracting, so try to go somewhere else.
Janine: 03:41 The second one, join a networking group, so many of you are members of our Healthcare Marketing Network, Facebook group, and you know that we often have a Freelance Friday so you can create the same atmosphere outside of the Internet, so I know at many office jobs they do like Fridays they go get a drink after work so maybe you can find a little club or something that you are interested in, even if it has nothing to do with your business to find those things. You can look at those when you go outside and work. You can kind of check out fliers at the library or those cafes or coffee shop. You can join those clubs and groups and gain new friends and just talk to different people.
Janine: 04:23 I consider myself an introvert and let me tell you why it’s not because I don’t like people, but I often recharge myself when I’m alone so I get up early. I have my coffee. Sometimes I read, sometimes I exercise, etc. While my kids and my husband are still asleep, it doesn’t mean I don’t like them. I do like people. I love people. I love being around people, I love helping people, but when I need energy and I need to regroup, I have to be alone. And, it took me a long time to figure that out. Honestly. I think it started when I realized like if I had gotten in an argument with somebody, I always had to go away. I had to go walk and think and sometimes pray or whatever it is to get, gather my thoughts together in a lot of people are extroverted in the sense that they don’t need to do that.
Janine: 05:13 My husband’s one of them if he thinks of a relaxing Friday night, it’s going out with people, you know, sometimes I like to do that. But really to me reading a book on the couch is really nice. So, trying to figure out for you, high performing savvy scribes, trying to figure out. I challenge you to think about yourself and, and what energizes you to see what you are an introvert and extrovert. And then there are those ambiverts that are in the middle. I sometimes consider myself as well because I know a lot of people that are way more introverted than I am. Okay. The next one, three, a lunch date, break up your day with a lunch date or even a coffee meeting. I must admit I have a very hard time with this at times because I don’t want to stop working. I have workaholic tendencies. I don’t want to call myself a workaholic, but I do have those tendencies.
Janine: 06:06 If I have a coffee date in the morning with somebody, all I’m thinking about is what I have to do in my office before my kids come home from school so that I can be present for them and that’s where I prioritize my life. My life is my family, my work and then my friends. If I know I got to get work done and I’m with a friend, it’s going into that space so I know I have to do my work. Then, my family and then a friend. If I have time, if I have a lunch date that I scheduled is because I scheduled it in advance and I’m going to be fully present there because I left that day pretty open, so I make it like a catch up day for myself, whether that’s my grocery shopping day or I just got to do some laundry or cleaning or household things or even mindless things for my business that are not pulling me in a different direction because I like to be fully present with people and my business when I’m doing that.
Janine: 06:59 The fourth thing: Join a group of like-minded people, so if you are a healthcare writer, come join us at the Healthcare Marketing Network by going to healthcaremarketingnetwork.com. And if you aren’t in the healthcare niche, you must know that there are many groups out there for business and for writing. So choose one that fits you perfectly. So if you already mom, writer, if you are a food blogger, try and find people that do the same thing as you engage in those groups, answer questions and ask questions. It makes you not feel alone. You’re with somebody that understands you and that leads into my fifth and final tip for you guys and it’s my favorite one is find a BFF, so you might be a solopreneur like many freelancers are, but after you join groups, you will connect with like-minded people. These people understand you and your business, the struggles, the ups, the downs, the in-betweens, and someone with the same type of business ideas as you or even sometimes the same kind of business that you know, it might be a competitor in a sense, but not us as healthcare marketing network people.
Janine: 08:03 We’re all the same. We know there’s the work out there, but we find those kinds of people with the same kind of lifestyle and YouTube can be each other’s, go-to people. Let me tell you, Carol is mine. She knows more than a lot of people in my life about my family, my work, my interests, etc. But she’s my number one cheerleader for my writeRN.net business. So think about that. Try to connect with them. And sometimes Carol and I just talk about life. We talk about our problems. We talk about our families and it’s relieving.
Janine: 08:37 That’s all I got for you guys. So I hope these tips can help you step out of the office, find out what’s out there to keep you from feeling lonely this winter and every other season of freelancing. Can you add to my list of how to stay away from loneliness? I love to hear it you guys, and do you have a business BFF? I’d love to hear that too. So go to healthcare marketing network.com and leave us a message. We love to hear your voice and share it on a future episode of The Savvy Scribe. And if you need more, check out our show notes for these tips and more so go ahead now. Take this win and go get your Write On. Take care, you guys.
Janine Kelbach, BSN, RNC-OB is a nurse entrepreneur with experience as a freelance writer, virtual assistant, and business coach. She helps solopreneurs/entrepreneurs with her proactive, diverse virtual assistant skills and keeps executives and business owners organized, prioritized, and less stressed.